Archive for the ‘Communication’ category

Call The Elephant Out On The Table…Even If It’s Been There For Ages

February 3, 2017

Empowerment is built on trust and a healthy relationship cultivated between leaders and their direct reports.  With empowerment comes an obligation to call out troubling situations that have gone ignored.  This is most difficult for leaders who greatly care about the person, but that’s when it is most critical.  How much trust can there really be if something obvious is being avoided?

When providing feedback, these steps should help the leader:

  • Take accountability for actions;
  • Describe the situation and behaviors;
  • Assign accountability to the direct report for identifying and implementing a solution.

For example: “I have to tell you, I feel guilty for not having brought up this issue sooner, but I have so much respect for you, I need to share with you something I should have said a long time ago.  I’m concerned you are losing credibility when you are unprepared for client sessions and not meeting deadlines. I’m confident you would never do anything to intentionally harm your credibility or ours.  What do you think you can do to turn the situation around?”

Empowered direct reports know when and how they have fallen short of expectations so they can feel the success of implementing a solution.

One-On-Ones Should Be About The Direct Report

December 16, 2016

Certain times of the year can be stressful for direct reports (i.e. holidays, back to school). Direct reports may have family members coming to visit, or they may be traveling out of town. College students may be re-entering the home.  Parties may be hosted, homes decorated, and baking prepared.

The very things that may bring one direct report happiness and excitement may bring another stress or depression.  One-on-ones are designed to be about the employee and their success.  Leaders simply asking about what the direct report has planned for the weekend may give them an idea if their direct reports are anticipating the time with trepidation or excitement.  That knowledge may play heavily into their delegation plans, milestones on projects, or resources deployed for projects at hand.

Leaders should empower their employees by delegating and supporting their workload based on all of their commitments.

Feedback Should Be A Daily Practice

November 22, 2016

Leaders should be providing feedback to their direct reports every day.  Often leaders want to save their feedback for the weekly one-on-one meetings or, worse, performance review sessions.

Don’t overlook the importance of positive feedback – leaders should be giving much more positive feedback than course corrections.  Some effective positive feedback examples are:

  • “I like the poise you demonstrated on that phone call.”
  • “Thanks for coming in early to print the sales reports.”
  • “Your contributions and ideas in the meeting were helpful to the team.”
  • “Great job assisting Sue with her presentation.”

One way for leaders to remind themselves of the importance of daily feedback is to put some coins (start with 3-5) in their left pocket and whenever they give positive, on-the-spot feedback, move a coin to their right pocket. At the end of the day, add the coins in the right pocket to a fund to use as a reward for being a great leader.

Giving frequent, immediate feedback empowers direct reports to be more productive and teams to be more successful.

Know Direct Reports Well

November 11, 2016

It’s an established fact that people who have healthy personal relationships have greater trust and are more willing to extend themselves for each other than those who have lesser relationships.  It then makes sense that leaders who want extra effort from their direct reports should have stronger personal relationships.

How well do leaders know their direct reports? They should be able to answer these four questions about each of their direct reports:

  1.  What is the name of their spouse or significant other?
  2.  What are their hobbies or interests?
  3.  What are the names and ages of their children or grandchildren?
  4.  What is the breed and name of their pet?

Leaders don’t need to be overly personal with their direct reports, but they should know a little about them.  A personal relationship can come from casual water cooler type conversations.  Regularly scheduled weekly one-on-one meetings are a great way to develop this relationship.  In our experience, there is no more important leadership technique than one-on-one meetings.

Empowered leaders develop deeper personal relationships with their direct reports that lead to more success.

Empowered Introverts Contribute More To Meetings

October 21, 2016

We all remember the quiet, shy person in high school who rarely spoke in class – the person who listened intently, took lots of notes, and worked hard at flying under the radar. When the teacher called on this introvert, we were all amazed at the insights offered and surprised the person didn’t speak up more often.

The best contributors to meetings are often the quietest. These reflective, contemplative thinkers have great ideas that are frequently lost on the team. Leaders can benefit by going out of their way to get the input of these team members. Some ideas to get their involvement:

  • distribute an agenda and/or discussion topics well before the meeting, specifying what decisions need to be made (the introverts will be well prepared and more likely to contribute to the discussion);
  • don’t let the domineering extroverts monopolize the conversation (the extroverts love being the focus of the meeting and the introverts are content letting them);
  • do not assume the introvert’s quietness means they agree (the introvert’s head nod means they heard the point not that they concur);
  • encourage the introverts to contribute by setting a rule that their silence means they disagree (this forces them to speak up);
  • ask the introverts to “think out loud” and never, never criticize these thoughts (introverts prefer to speak after their thoughts are complete and are uncomfortable expressing their incomplete thoughts).

Leaders who empower the introverts on their team to contribute to team meetings have more successful organizations.

Apply Interpersonal Intelligence To The Sales Approach

September 30, 2016

In his controversial book, Frames of Mind – The Theory Of Multiple Intelligences, Howard Gardner introduces the theory of seven different intelligences: linguistic, musical, logical, spatial, kinesthetic, intrapersonal, and interpersonal.  Gardner defines interpersonal intelligence as: the ability to read the intentions and desires of other individuals and act upon this knowledge (Frames of Mind p. 239).

It is interesting to understand how leaders and their sales staff apply interpersonal intelligence to the selling process.  Behavioral tools and structures should be used to allow sales associates to better understand themselves, read their customers, and adapt to their customers.  Applying behavioral science to the sales process creates a greater connection between the buyer and seller and leads to more sales.

Leaders should sharpen the interpersonal intelligence of their sales staff and empower them for greater success.

Start In The First Person When Delivering Course Corrections

September 9, 2016

Many leaders feel uncomfortable when giving course corrections. The last thing they want to do is demotivate a direct report, or hurt their feelings when something “is just not that big a deal” but should still be addressed.  The fact is if leaders didn’t care about the direct report’s success or believe they made valuable contributions to the organization, leaders wouldn’t bother giving feedback – they’d just fire the poor performer.

When giving feedback, starting in the first person prevents the direct report from being thrown on the defensive right from the first phrase.  If the leader begins in the second person, it can sound harsh and put the direct report in a defensive posture.

Second person: When you cut off your peers in staff meetings…

First person:  I’m concerned, or I’m disappointed, or I’m afraid despite or call your intentions, when you cut off your peers in staff meetings to interject your thoughts…

Read those out loud — notice how differently it sounds and the change in emphasis on the word “you.”

After starting in the first person, the direct report should get the distinct impression their leader has confidence they have the ability to correct their course, be successful, and fix a situation on their own which creates an empowered, non-defensive response.

Empowered leaders believe their direct reports can be contributors to the organization and providing course corrections by starting the feedback in the first person will make them more successful.

Job Accountabilities Can Be More Than A Performance Acceleration Tool

July 22, 2016

A single page job accountability document succinctly identifies job expectations and identifies success factors.  Leaders and their direct reports should be reviewing and updating this document at least quarterly.

A well-crafted job accountability report can be used for other purposes as well.  When recruiting, send each candidate a copy of the job accountabilities.  It’s surprising how many candidates, after seeing how accountable they are expected to be, deselect themselves saving interview time.

Job accountabilities can also be shared among direct reports.  When everyone knows what is expected of their co-workers, there will be much more appreciation for each other’s priorities and a greater focus on success factors.

Leaders who incorporate job accountabilities into their leadership practices will not only empower their direct reports to succeed, but the hiring team’s effectiveness improves as well.

Be Creative When Assigning Titles To Direct Reports

June 24, 2016

More and more organizations are getting creative with the titles they assign to their associates.  Titles like Sanitation Engineer (Janitor), Sandwich Artist (sub maker), VP of Hiring Really Great Talent (VP of HR), Corporate Magician (Administrative Assistant), Transportation Captain (Driver), and Director of First Impressions (Receptionist) are imaginative and conjure up fun images of the company and incumbents.  These untraditional titles stand out, make great conversation fodder, and communicate the company’s culture.

Some organizations choose titles that are attractive to customers and industry associates (banks are infamous for all their Vice Presidents). Sales people have the greatest variety of titles: Sales Representative, Account Executive, Business Development Executive, Customer Specialist, and Sales Ninja.

When posting for job openings, hiring managers should use titles that will resonate with the types of candidates they want to attract.  If they call their sales person VP of Sales and post the job that way, expect candidates with much sales experience, a number of direct reports, and higher salary expectations. If managers post for a Sandwich Artist, they’ll likely not get responses from someone expecting to work behind a deli counter.

The title used in the job posting doesn’t have to be the title assigned to the new hire.  Similarly, the title put on someone’s business card need not be the same title they hold within the organization.  For the same job, there can be different titles for job postings, business cards, and internal classification.

Leaders who empower their team to be creative in the titles they use will experience more success (and fun).

Repeat A Message For It To Be Remembered

June 3, 2016

It is a basic marketing principle that it takes seven “touches” before someone will internalize and/or act upon a call to action.  This is why we are inundated with branding messages from billboards to websites to athletic events.

In the workplace, the average person needs to hear new information at least three times before it registers into their mind for immediate recollection.  Similarly, the average person needs to hear new information at least seven times in order to retain it.  This makes one wonder how many times below average people must hear a message before they retain it.

It is the leader’s job to communicate the message, their values, what’s right about what’s happening, and what’s wrong — over and over and over again. To be on the same page, everybody has to hear the message repeatedly.

Empowered leaders repeat their message and their teams experience more success.